Politics

Politics: The science or art of political government......The practice or profession of conducting political affairs.

I have never been a political person, although politics surround me.  It lurks in every corner and crevice of society.  I view it as a game that I watch from afar, there are no true winners and the real losers wear the scar.

I've seen enough through the years and heard the lies with my own ears, ignorance is bliss as we turn a blind eye to our own fears.

Republican or Democrat? Oh is that a fact...a Trillion dollar neither one of them can handle that. We have always been a country divided and we can't deny it, so many agendas... they can't even hide it.

How do you go from "We the people" to "Separate but equal"...come on, this is what the mess was built on. Tranquility, Liberty and Posterity but we are still in need of clarity between what they say and what they do, in the end the only one looking out for you....is YOU.

I don't know it all but I know what I know, I'm not self absorbed and I'm willing to grow.  Our only command was that we love The Supreme, and love our neighbor, so simple it seems, but it's a trying task to say the least especially when the focus is controlling that monetary beast.

It's not about affiliations, let build relations, find that common ground and become a nation, under GOD...Indivisible, it's not rocket science...it shouldn't take a miracle.  By Unique

 

Short and Sweet...

‎"I shoulda listened when they spoke those words..read between the lines and seen the truth in the lies... so now ima ride this wave even if it be the death of me...let the vultures feed until there's nothin left of me my heart on my sleeve expect nothin less from me." By Unique


‎"Love is like poker...you can't expect everyone to CALL, some will only CHECK but most will choose to FOLD without even trying" By Unique


‎"After
5 seconds I knew u were special/After 5 minutes I knew u were 1 of a
kind/After 5 hours all I could do is imagine n wonder how after 5 days
this could have eva of happen/After 5 months it was a wrap I was
sold/Realizing wat I found was more precious than gold/It was a yr
and some change b4 we took those vows/And
5 months after I still feel like WOW!...." By Unique


‎"By opening yourself up to other peoples views and opinions you will either be enlightened or strengthened in your own understanding" By Unique


‎"Neva sell your soul for monetary gain, Lyfe is a game so if you're losin that's a shame. Politics, Religion the hustle is the same, all a man has is his character and his....name" By Unique


‎"I'm boycottin Valentines, I don't need a DAY... to tell my lady that she's mine, how much I need her and that she's on my mind. EVERYDAY I try to show her love, doing little things...just because. I might rub her feet while she takes a nap, I got the house work and the kids boo.....just relax." By Unique


‎"Sometimes we get too busy and that's unfortunate, our days go 100 miles an hour and we're missing every bit of it, goals have been set and we sacrifice so much in pursuit of it, we've created a race against time and we're losing it..." By Unique


A yr ago 2morrow I said "I DO",
"I DO" to all the things known and unknown,
"I DO" to the expected and even the unexpected,
"I DO" to a lifelong commitment to loving her, giving her my very best...and even then I reach deeper for the rest.
"I DO" to every situation, unconditionally the words resonated through me, fearful that my best would be less than she deserved, I stood tall and just let them fall...." By Unique


‎"I used to wear pain like a badge
I carried hurt like luggage
With my eyez wide shut
I thought I saw the truth but it wasn't
Nothin but lies in that fairytale, lost in that mental jail
I broke free, spread my wings....now i see very well."
By Unique


“Mental weakness is a form of slavery, bound and shackled, vulnerable to the controlling force of its master…laughter is disengaged when the seriousness is realized, and foolishly we rationalize the truth and the lies… in hope to keep alive that weakness…that sickness..‎Mental strength is how we become empowered to combat these vices…these habits…it’s the things we really want to walk away from but we reach back and grab it. It doesn't matter how long or short the list, some people are oblivious and don’t even know their…..Mental Weakness” By Unique.


‎"For every father who has failed to answer the call I can give you a mother who has also dropped the ball. So lets take a moment to recognize the MEN holding it down, doing their best without a script, without wavering....not even a little bit" By Unique


‎"Being a father isn't about being perfect, it's about staying the course, caring enough to sacrifice the short term for the benefits of the long term to release to the world a better extension of you." By Unique

Friends.....

How many of us have them?  Today true friendship is hard to come by.  I see my kids and I feel sorry for them that they may not experience the friendships that I have in my life.  A true friend isn't bound to a certain city or state, organization or church group but they extends beyond the barriers of life itself and into eternity. True friendship can't be confined to social network sites like facebook, in which some people have upwards of 500 friends. A real friend has no agenda, there friendship isn't conditional on what you're able to do for them.  The friendship is about the laughter shared, the support given and ability to keep it real at all times.  They tell each other the truth and not what they want to hear but they do it in a way that is sensitive to their situation.  At the end of the day there is a thin line between true friendship and family, and they are often one in the same.  A true friend is blessing that we should never take for granted and count ourselves fortunate that if nothing else we have at least......ONE.  By Unique

In The Mind Of A Man

Lost in the mind of a man with a dream
No one knows the things I've seen
The things I've heard or the things I've shared
But maybe one day when I find my way
The things I will say...will be the things I've learned
While......In the mind of a man.  By Unique

Taking the time......

to appreciate the little things.  Every now and again, when I stand still enough to take in all the beauty that's around me, I get an overwhelming appreciation for all that I have.  Unfortunately life tends to be a race and the destination is never really the finish line.  I love being busy, and with our family there is plenty to keep us that way but it scares me when the state of being busy clouds my mind, alters my mood or maybe a hint of stress that not even I am aware of..  So I find myself wanting to take life in stride, not slowing down but appreciating things more along the way.  I think in some ways being in a mindset of being busy all the time is the devils ways of distracting us, keeping us from what's really important in life such as our Spiritual, Mental, Physical and Emotional health.  It's so easy to be consumed by the negative that surrounds us.  It is harder to be a LIGHT that shines positive in the midst of a downward spiraling world

the small things....

I wish our kids would continue to love "the small things" in life like they do when they are 2.

For instance, when I wash Kihanna's blanket, she runs around the house with such excitement telling everyone "my blanket is washed, my blanket is washed." When I buy her strawberries, fruit snacks, or any one of her favorite treats she gives me the biggest hug and says "thank you mommy!!" She is so excited when I make popcorn, loves it when I tell her we are going to "header's", and is the first one to come running to me when I walk in the door from work.

They say its the "terrible twos" but I have a feeling come 3 and 4 years old this small stuff that is exciting her now won't be so exciting anymore.....and I will be wishing for those so-called terrible twos again.

Intro

Welcome to "The Bowser Bunch".  We are a family of 7 strong, 1 beautiful woman, 1 beautiful teenage girl who thinks she is grown (smirk) 3 beautiful lil girls, 1 teenage boy (yea I know what a shame...smirk) and last but not least, ME, the Man of the Bunch.  To say there is never a dull moment is an understatement, between work, school, workouts, sports events for the kids, housework, diaper changes, and pot training, trying to fit in quality time with everyone is tough....but we make it work.

Our family consists of a lot of characters with different personalities, a competitive bunch we are so playing household games can get pretty lively.

So stay tuned for regular updates surrounding  TBB and all the madness ;)